Most online compatibility tests give you a score and a horoscope.
Paul Zohav, M.Ed., gives you a conversation.
The Relationship Compatibility Checkup is a focused 90-minute couples counseling session designed to give you a clear, honest picture of your relationship. Not a quiz. Not an algorithm. A real marriage counselor with over 30 years of experience sitting with you and mapping out exactly where you are strong and where you need work.
Think of it as a relationship compatibility test that actually means something.
Available in person in Tucson, AZ, or online via Zoom worldwide. Just $199.
Paul guides every couple through four core areas in the 90-minute session:
Communication styles.
How you talk to each other, what causes misunderstandings, and how to close the gap between what you mean and what your partner hears.
Love languages.
How you each give and receive love, and why your way of showing love may not be landing the way you intend.
MBTI personality dynamics.
Paul uses the MBTI personality framework (16personalities.com) to identify where you naturally clash and where you complement each other. This is the same MBTI compatibility test framework used by counselors and psychologists worldwide. Understanding your personality types transforms what feels like conflict into something you can work with.
Childhood imprints.
The patterns you grew up with that quietly shape how you show up in your relationship today.
By the end of the session, you will know exactly where you stand as a couple. What is working, what needs work, and what to do next.
This couples compatibility test is built for couples at any stage:
Couples thinking about marriage.
Before you commit, take a real marriage compatibility test with a trained counselor. Not a quiz. A session that tells you the truth.
Couples in an early relationship.
Understand your partner compatibility before small patterns become big problems.
Married couples feeling disconnected.
Something feels off but you cannot name it. The checkup helps you name it.
Couples who have tried counseling before.
You have done the work but want a clear baseline of where you are now.
If you have ever searched for a compatibility test for relationships or wondered whether you and your partner are truly compatible, this session was built for you.
Online compatibility tests give you a percentage. This gives you clarity.
No algorithm knows your relationship the way a trained counselor does. Paul listens, asks the right questions, and gives you specific feedback based on what he actually hears, not a report generated from multiple choice answers.
The difference between a couple compatibility test online and this session is the difference between a fitness app and a personal trainer. One gives you data. The other changes your behavior.
You leave with:
A clear picture of your compatibility strengths as a couple.
Specific areas to work on, with practical tools you can use that same week.
A real understanding of your MBTI compatibility and love language dynamic.
A clear decision about whether continued counseling makes sense for you.
After the 90 minutes, you will have a clear picture of where your relationship stands.
Some couples leave with tools and the confidence to move forward on their own. Others decide to continue with regular marriage counseling sessions. Either outcome is completely valid, and there is no pressure to continue.
The checkup is a standalone session. What you do with the insights is up to you.
If you do continue working with Paul, the 99 checkup fee applies toward your first full counseling session.
Online quizzes and zodiac-based tests are not accurate measures of real relationship compatibility. A session with a trained counselor is fundamentally different. Paul draws on over 30 years of experience working with couples to surface patterns that no online compatibility test can detect.
The session runs 90 minutes. Paul covers communication styles, love languages, MBTI personality dynamics, and childhood patterns that affect how you relate to each other.
Yes. The session is available via Zoom worldwide. Couples across the US and internationally have completed this couples compatibility test from their own homes.
Not exactly. The compatibility checkup is a single focused session, not an ongoing program. Many couples use it as a starting point before deciding whether to pursue premarital counseling.
Compatibility is not all-or-nothing. Every couple has strengths and areas of friction. The session helps you understand yours clearly so you can make an informed decision about your future together.
Yes. This is a couples session. Both partners need to be present for the relationship compatibility test to be meaningful.
The session costs $199 and includes the full 90-minute session with Paul Zohav, M.Ed. If you continue with ongoing counseling, the $199 applies toward your first full session.
MBTI stands for Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. It is one of the most widely used personality frameworks in the world. Paul uses the 16personalities.com assessment as part of the session to help couples understand their personality differences, where they naturally complement each other, and where friction tends to arise. The MBTI compatibility test component alone gives most couples a completely new way of understanding each other.
Yes. Many couples who come in feeling stuck or disconnected find the session clarifying. Naming what is actually happening is often the first step toward changing it.
Regular counseling is an ongoing process. The compatibility checkup is a single focused session. It is not therapy and does not replace ongoing counseling for couples dealing with serious issues like infidelity or long-term conflict. Think of it as a partner compatibility test with a trained counselor, not a treatment program.
90 minutes. A clear picture of where you stand as a couple. $199.
