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“And?” is your secret power!
When we ask ourselves what is the use of And?” most of us would say that “And “ connects.
Peanut butter and jelly, dogs and cats, brothers and sisters.
Or we might respond that And?” connects thoughts.
For example:
- “I prefer blue and I like gold,” thereby connecting our thoughts and ideas.
- “And?” is far, far more.
- “And?” is an amazing Power word invoking new thought.
- “And?” opens up space for reflection and further consideration.
- The best news? “And?” when spoken in a rising tone creates future!
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And is your secret power in any moment of challenge
At any moment you’re experiencing negative thoughts, feeling thwarted by circumstances, just say “And?”
“And?” is an amazing word of power. Repeat “And? “as many times as necessary until you’ve generated a
brand-new future for yourself.
For example:
- I am feeling upset and sad. “And?”
- I do not like how this turned out. “And?”
- I am mad at my manager. “And?”
- I have a flat tire. “And?”
No matter what circumstances confront you, no matter what your thoughts are, or the mood you are in,
you can “And” yourself out into fresh air simply by saying “And?”
Right now, look for dissatisfactions, frustrations, concerns, or worries.
Add “And?” then experience where “And? “ takes you, your thoughts, your emotions, and your future.
Try it. You’ll like it.
Blessings on your journey.
Conclusion
Perhaps you are experiencing some communication problems within your relationship, or you want to create a deeper emotional bond with the other person. Be it one simple word: And? This word shifts perception and opens the mind toward an infinite realm of possibilities. This affords a useful tool on a small scale to fundamentally transform relationships between you and your partner and between your partner and yourself. If you wish to learn more about this, go ahead and sign up with Paul Zohav, the very best marriage communication coach, to truly witness and feel the power of conversation changing destinies.